True all the way! While it's not a straight line, I think that the lack of respect across our nation has led to some of the violence we're seeing. I'm sorry, friends, but I think that (unless you're super close with someone and are "Aunt___" or "Uncle___"...) adults should be referred to as "Mr. and Mrs. ___." Then there is a distinct difference between friends and people who are more...seasoned. And on the topic of respect, I believe that parents are doing their children a disservice by being friends with their kids and fighting *with* teachers (etc) when their child does something be it in behavior, grades, speech, etc, rather than recognizing that their child makes mistakes and suffer consequence.
Kids will learn to respect themselves enough to accept being less-than-perfect, that mistakes happen, and that there won't always be someone there to fight for them. Kids need to be taught to have a moral compass; as humans it isn't entirely natural to be loving to others. We *want* to be selfish. It's all intertwined! I'm not saying that it's easy, but that's one of the difficulties of parenting. (and no, I don't have kids, but have many friends who do, and I have taught).
Perhaps I'm too old-fashioned. Perhaps I'm too conservative. Perhaps I'm getting older. Perhaps I think respect is something children should offer their elders. Perhaps., perhaps, perhaps... You get the point.
When there are morals instilled in childhood, there are morals in an adult (even if they don't show it)! And yes, I believe that morals fall under the "respect" category.
There are people in my life from childhood and I have a great deal of trouble calling them by their first names. I've shortened it to call them "Mr.J" or "Mrs.Q" because I still know that they are one of my elders.
Don't get me wrong, I don't believe respect is something only to be given to the generations prior to yours. Respect should be given to anyone around you. And to yourself, but the whole self-esteem thing comes in to play with that one. Too much to go into for this post.
So yes, I have strong feelings on this one. I firmly believe in this, some of which can be displayed by not calling those generations prior to yours by their first names. Also, as the above quote says, hold the door for the person behind you, give your seat to an elder, and say "excuse me" and "God bless you" when it's needed.